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a fun group of friends that my husband met in college

My studio expanded exponentially this week:

Metaphorically. I was lucky enough to stumble over the very talented and generous Zack Arias who filled my head with knowledge and ideas. My daughter drove with me to Home Depot and the two of us somehow navigated from store to parking lot with two very large tile boards; her Daddy carried them into the house for us and her brother, anxious to show off his new shark-tooth necklace (thank you, Groovy Becker family!), stood as model.




UPDATE: here’s a SOOTC shot of the whole studio setup for those of you who have emailed me to ask:
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The white foam-core is just like what you buy at Wal-Mart for classroom presentations, but it’s really, really tall — like 8 feet.  It was ghastly expensive I remember and I had to buy a whole case of it from an art store.   I cut each panel in half and used black gaffers tape (that’s the black line you see going down the photo; if I were to do this again, I’d use WHITE tape just to make it easier to clean up post production!) to tape them together so that they would stand on their own in an L-shape.  The two strobes are on stands, hidden behind the the foam-core walls, aimed at the background.  The other black line you see going down is part of the stand that I use to hold up the white seamless paper.   There is a good deal of light still spilling onto my subject, you can see how his hair is sort of yellowish-cast where it meets the white background?  The ceiling is white and light is just bouncing around like crazy all over the place even though he is standing a good 10+ feet and several f/stops away from the background.  Three strobes total, two (behind the makeshift foam-core gobos) set to fire at the background one stop brighter than the front strobe, camera right, very close to and lighting my subject with a large softbox, plus a reflector on camera left for fill.  Not far behind my subject’s shoulders is where the tile board ends and the white seamless (underneath) begins, but in most cases the light blows that line out to where it’s not visible.

I’m mindful to keep my subject from standing in front of anything black or off the backdrop; later, in Photoshop, I used the selection tool to select blocks of space to the side of my subject and hit “delete.”  Poof, that section is suddenly bright, high-key white.   Sometimes I use the erase tool for smaller areas.  Then I use the dodge tool, set it to highlight at 10ish percent and brush around my subject until it matches the high-key sides and background directly behind.


September 5, 2008 - 11:23 am

Lisa Stein - Ok, now I’m hooked. Tile boards? What are they? Are you shooting with natural light? studio lights? not seamless, but tile boards, hmmmm

November 17, 2008 - 12:14 am

christine - hi Lisa!  regular old tile boards from Home Depot OVER seamless white; I use three studio strobes, two lighting the background and one lighting my subject.  click on Zack’s name above — he explains it fully.  have FUN!  

Military Spouse Appreciation Day

I was wondering how I would top some of the highlights from this year on my blog: Mardi Gras balcony view, Carlos at the White House with the LSU Championship team, front row wave to Pope Benedict XVI as he visited D.C.

And then Saturday morning I found an invitation in my inbox from the White House to be on the South Lawn Tuesday as President Bush addresses military spouses!!!!! My husband put my name in the pool and I was very lucky to have been selected!

They treated us to breakfast, a tour, music by Phil Vassar, and our 22nd Secretary of Defense Dr. Robert M. Gates walked through the crowd, greeting military spouses and posing for photos. I saw a few familiar faces and met some very interesting and fun new ones! If your photo is in the slide show and you would like a copy, leave me a comment below (your email will not be published!) and I’ll send it to you.

I took advantage of the unique background to shoot some self portraits for a contest — and I don’t mind shamelessly promoting Gabi and her website because I think her camera strap is the best thing to happen to my Nikon since the CMOS sensor!

After, I took the Metro to Pentagon City and had lunch with Carlos and Johnny Bostwick. It was wonderful to catch up. (That was orange flavored iced tea, btw.)

The White House emailed me the text of the ceremony and I’m posting it below for all of the many strong and inspirational military spouses who were not present yesterday. Happy Military Spouse Appreciation Day.:)

THE WHITE HOUSE

Office of the Press Secretary

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For Immediate Release May 6, 2008

REMARKS BY THE PRESIDENT
COMMEMORATING MILITARY SPOUSE DAY

South Lawn

9:55 A.M. EDT

THE PRESIDENT: Thank you very much, Phil. I appreciate — appreciate you and your band members being here today. Thanks for entertaining us here on the South Lawn of the White House. (Applause.) We are so glad you have come. We’re honoring six recipients of the President’s Volunteer Service Awards. And as we do so, we celebrate the contributions and achievements of our military spouses all across the country.

Laura sends her very best. She’s heading down to Texas for — (applause.) She left behind a DVD — (laughter) — with Steve Martin, said, you might want to watch this before you head down there yourself. (Laughter.) But she sends her love. And I’m very fortunate to have married such a kind and decent, compassionate woman.

I appreciate the Secretary. (Applause.) Secretary of Defense, Secretary Bob Gates is with us. I’m proud you’re here, Mr. Secretary. Secretary Pete Geren of the United States Army is with us. Secretary Don Winter, U.S. Navy, and his wife, Linda, have joined us. (Applause.) Vice Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, Hoss Cartwright — General Hoss Cartwright and his wife, Sandee, have joined us. (Applause.) General Dick Cody, Vice Chairman of the — Vice Chief of Staff of the U.S. Army, and his wife, Vicki, is with us. Thanks for coming, General Cody. (Applause.) Master Chief Petty Officer of the Coast Guard, Skip Bowen. (Applause.) Members of the United States Congress John Carter, Susan Davis, Dutch Ruppersberger. We’re so honored you all have come to pay tribute to the military spouses. I’m really pleased that Mary Jo Myers, who is a member of the President’s Council on Service and Civic Participation, is with us — the wife of General Richard Myers, former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs. Appreciate the winners’ families joining us here today. But thank — most of all, thank you all for coming.

So here’s why this event is happening. Twenty-four years ago, President Ronald Reagan signed a proclamation recognizing Military Spouses Day. And my own judgment is, is that we need to recognize military spouses every day. (Applause.) But this is the time of year that we honor the wives and husbands who support our men and women in uniform. And today, it’s my honor to welcome you here to the White House. I can’t think of a better place in which to say thanks. Whether you’re signed up for military life at the recruiting station or at the altar rail, each person — (laughter) — each person is a volunteer. And when you married your soldier, sailor, airman, Marine, or Coast Guardsman, you became more than just part of a family — you became part of our nation’s military family.

It’s not an easy life being in the military, particularly when we’re at war, and I understand that. For many of you it means packing up your belongings and moving on short notice. I suspect a lot of you have been on the move much more than you thought you’d be on the move. (Laughter.) For others it means living in a foreign land, which can be exciting, but it also means you’re far away from your extended family, and that’s hard. And for many of you, it means missing a spouse as he or she serves on the front lines in this battle to secure our country and to spread freedom for the sake of peace.

Being left behind when a loved one goes to war has got to be one of the hardest jobs in the United States military. Talked to a lot of folks who have been in the theater, as well as spouses, and it is clear to me the harder job in many ways is to be the person at home taking care of the kids and having sleepless nights as you pray for safe return.

You’re carrying out the burdens — you’re serving our country. And it’s noble service. And it’s necessary service. And the United States [of] America owes you a huge debt of gratitude. And so, on behalf of our people, thank you for what you’re doing. (Applause.)

One of the things I have learned in seven and a half years as the President is, as you’ve served our country, you also serve each other. I’ve spent a lot of time visiting our military bases here in America and across the world. And it’s been a great experience. What I’ve found is that there’s always a close-knit community, people who are sharing a special bond, and people who take time to look out after people. It’s a — it’s been an amazing experience to see the fabric of our military communities firsthand, and today we’re going to honor six military spouses who have done a little extra to serve your communities and serve the nation.

First we honor an Army wife named Colleen Saffron. In May 2004, Colleen’s husband, Terry, who is with us, was severely injured while serving in Iraq. And Colleen learned firsthand the challenges facing the families of wounded warriors. So last year she helped found Operation Life Transformed, which is a non-profit that helps family members and caregivers of our wounded troops get the training they need so they can work from home while caring for their loved ones. To date, Operation Life Transformed has helped more than 30 spouses and caregivers get the funding and support they need for new and flexible careers. One of those she helps is Maria Baez, and she was the mom whose Marine son was paralyzed by a sniper bullet in Fallujah. Here’s what Maria said about Operation Life Transformed: “I can’t thank you enough for helping me and trusting me, and also for not giving up.”

So, Colleen, America can’t thank you enough to help our wounded troops and their families, and we’re so pleased to have you here at the White House. Stand up. (Applause.)

Today — today we honor a Coast Guard wife named Ramona Vazquez. Several years ago, while stationed in Miami, Ramona got to know an enlisted Coast Guardsman named Nate Bruckenthal. Then, in 2004, she learned that Nate had been killed by a suicide bomber in Iraq, the first Coast Guardsman killed in military action since the Vietnam War. Nate left behind a wife, who was expecting their first child. When she gave birth to a daughter named Harper, Nate’s dad was quoted as saying, “When one door closes, another door opens.” He inspired Ramona to start “Nate’s Open Door Baby Pantry,” a program that provides diapers and formula and clothing and toys and furniture to military members and civilians at no charge. The motto of this organization is: “Unconditional love and support.” And so, Ramona, America is proud of you, I’m proud of you. I have a feeling that Nate is looking down on great pride today as well. Thank you for joining us. (Applause.)

Today we honor Air Force husband Bob Davison. Since his wife, Lisa, joined the Air Force nearly 12 years ago, Bob has lived on bases across the country and across the world. And everywhere Bob goes, he’s made a difference. When Lisa and Bob were stationed at Lackland Air Force Base in Texas, Bob raised $10,000 for the local Fisher House. When they were stationed at Lakenheath — (applause) — Lakenheath, England, Bob established the Airman’s Food Pantry, raising nearly $120,000 in donations to provide short-term food aid for our military families facing financial difficulties. When they were stationed at Scott Air Force Base in Illinois, Bob began volunteering with Operation Home Front, which is a national non-profit that assists our military families in need. He has continued working with Operation Home Front at his wife’s current duty station at Columbus Air Force Base in Mississippi.

To date, he’s raised donations worth more than $350,000 for the organization, including more than one million phone card minutes for distribution to our service members. Lisa Davison is a leader in the United States Air Force, Bob Davison is a leader in America’s armies of compassion, and I welcome you today to the White House. (Applause.)

We honor Navy wife named Ellen Patton. Ellen’s husband, Mark, is a Captain in the Navy, and her son, Erik, is a cadet at West Point. She loves our military, she loves her boys, and she loves to sew. (Laughter.) So she put these two loves together — or three loves together — and began to volunteer with Quilts of Valor Foundation. The organization has taken on a mission to provide wartime quilts to every single service member wounded in the war against these extremists. So far she has made and sent more than 80 quilts to veterans and wounded troops. She also tracked down many of the sailors injured during the attack of the USS Cole, and made quilts for them as well. Ellen says that when she sees troops coming home with terrible wounds, she wants to provide them with some “healing in knowing that they are appreciated.” So, Ellen, thank you for what you do to wrap our soldiers in quilts made with such loving hands, and welcome to the White House. (Applause.)

We honor Army Reserve wife Dawnle Scheetz. In 2006, Dawnle’s husband, Major Larry Scheetz, deployed to Iraq with the U.S. Army Reserve. When he arrived, Larry saw terrible conditions of young Iraqi children, and told Dawnle about it. So Dawnle started Operation School House, a project to collect school supplies and clothing and toys for poor children in Afghanistan and Iraq. During an eight-month span, she collected five tons of supplies, which were packaged and shipped to the front lines and distributed by our troops. Here’s something even more impressive: She’s doing it while fighting breast cancer.

So, Dawnle, your service has changed young lives in Iraq and Afghanistan, and your service has inspired the whole nation. We all pray for a speedy recovery, and we honor you here at the White House. (Applause.)

We honor a Marine wife named Kaprece James. Kaprece has been married for two years to Second Lieutenant Rodney James. She’s living at her first duty station — the Marine Corps Air Ground Combat Center at Twenty-Nine Palms. She has been a force of nature since she’s arrived. When she moved on the base, Kaprece immediately began volunteering with the American Red Cross. She’s assisted with more than a hundred Red Cross communications messages that have provided our deployed service members with notification or assistance in emergency situations. Kaprece developed the first year-round Youth Leadership Program on base to help young people learn from professional — learn professional leadership and interviewing skills. She raised funds for a program that will allow young people to assemble 500 disaster kits for enlisted service members and their families. She developed a special newsletter for distribution to 250 families of deployed personnel. And on top of all that, she serves as a cheerleading coach for the children of Marines and civilian personnel on base. Whew. (Laughter.)

So today, Kaprece, we honor you. We honor your enthusiasm. We admire your dedication to the Corps, and we thank you for the example you’ve set. (Applause.)

The six individuals we honor here today have earned the respect of our nation. They represent thousands of other military spouses who make significant contributions to our country. So we honor six, but we say thanks to millions.

Our country appreciates the service and devotion. Our country owes you something else in return. One way we can repay the service of our spouses is by making the burdens of military life a little easier. So this year I signed into law a change in the Family and Medical Leave Act, which allows a spouse, parent, child, or next of kin to take up to 26 work-weeks of leave to care for a service member with a serious injury or illness who is undergoing therapy or treatment. I hope that helps. (Applause.) When we find substandard housing, we’ll take care of it. We want to make sure that the sacrifice you’re making is one that at least you understand that the government appreciates what you’re doing.

I sent up some legislation — I certainly hope Congress moves on it quickly — that will make it easier to expand access to child care, create new authorities to appoint qualified spouses into civil service jobs, provide educational opportunities and job training for our military spouses, and finally, allow our troops to transfer their unused education benefits to spouses or children. (Applause.) This legislation is moving. I hope to be able to sign it as quickly as possible. It is the absolute right thing to do. It should send a clear message that we care for you, we respect you, and we love you.

Thanks for coming to the White House. May God bless you, your families, your loved ones, and the United States of America. (Applause.)

END 10:10 A.M. EDT

May 7, 2008 - 10:52 am

Sara - thank you SO MUCH for that! I’d love to have a copy. can I have a copy of the one looking out the window toward the monument too?

May 7, 2008 - 11:25 am

Miette - Way too cool. :) What an amazing year you’re having!

May 7, 2008 - 12:45 pm

Jeff - Nice photos.

May 7, 2008 - 1:08 pm

Tina - Proud of you!

May 7, 2008 - 1:23 pm

Dean (highschool friend) - Christine, Wow you are doing amazing things in life. God has given you an amazing spouse and kids and allowing you to share your moments and those of others in an incredible way. I’m sure you realize what a gift he has given you. But in case you didn’t I thought I’d share! Tell your family HI, can’t wait to meet them this summer.

May 7, 2008 - 4:37 pm

JB - Hey cool shots! They look much better at full size. Thanks! Becky is jealous about the Pope and White House adventures.

May 7, 2008 - 8:34 pm

Myra - Life sends us to some amazing places…..I really like the video camera shot with the reflection in the monitor. I love your focus on the “behind the scenes” people that always seem to go unnoticed.

May 7, 2008 - 8:55 pm

Kathy Jones - I can not believe I did not see you there!! It was an amazing day!! I got to shake George’s hand!!!! I would love to see your pictures of the day. I am still on cloud nine!

May 8, 2008 - 5:26 pm

Glynda Richter - Wasn’t it incredible? I ran into KJ there just before I saw you. I was amazed to see 2 altus faces. Fantastic shots! You know which prints I want.

May 10, 2008 - 2:16 am

Ramona Vazquez - Wonderful photos! My husband is currently underway and couldn’t be there for the event. My eldest son was with me but he only captured a handful of pics from the day. If it wouldn’t be too much trouble, I’d love it if you could forward me the photos you’d be willing to share so that I can create a disc to mail out to my husband. I know he’d appreciate it!

I know I’m a bit north from you but… everyone knows someone who knows someone who…you get the point…Nate’s Open Door mentioned by President Bush is located at the USCG Baltimore YARD, Curtis Bay. It’s open to ALL military…regarless of uniform or rank! If families are struggling and could use a helping hand in our area, please direct them to my website:
http://www.coastguardspouseassociation.com. If I can help, Nate’s Door is OPEN!

May 13, 2008 - 7:37 am

Sandi McClanahan - You are awesome and your work is amazing. For sure let me know when you are coming my way!! (Destin, Fl) We would be honored to have the shot of us in front of the White House. Also- how did your entry into the camera strap contest go?? sandi and callie mcclanahan

May 13, 2008 - 10:49 am

Teressa - Love the photos. Among my favs are the one of the camcorder type camera with the U.S. flag reflection, and one couple with her arm raised that shows a bracelet with her family on it. Also love the lights inside and photo of George Washington, and your photo (you look beautiful – love the hair) with President Reagan in the back. Looks like a great day! BTW – also love what you’ve done with the blog – the wallpaper background, and border around photos. This slide show was great!

May 14, 2008 - 2:35 am

Sheila Gebhardt - …Wow, I feel so sheltered! I love your work….and look forward to visiting your site to see what your up to. I can see the passion not only in your work but in your face :) .

BTW
Is there a way we can keep our kiddos from growing up so fast..(sigh!)

May 14, 2008 - 2:43 am

Sheila Gebhardt - ..Well, I tried leaving a comment and I am not sure where it landed, so I will try to repeat what I had oringally said… I can really see the passion in not only your work but in your face. It is so fun to visit your site and live life outside of my little town of Turner. Your work is AWESOME!

…BTW.. our kiddos need to stop growing up to fast… (sigh!)

May 15, 2008 - 5:24 am

Lisa Stowe - It made my day to see your photos!  It gave me a shot of good ole American partiotism and made my heart yearn for the good ole USA!  What an awesome experience!  I went around telling all my friends it was Military Spouse Appreciation Day.  They don’t quite understand, if they are not military,  what it is that ties us all together! 

Washington D.C. welcomes Pope Benedict XVI

I wish I could have photographed the sounds of the bells that were ringing to announce the motorcade as Pope Benedict XVI approached the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception. It all happened so fast, and suddenly there he was!!!



And because I’m a Mommy first, the shot of the day is the one with blur obscuring my lens, because that blur is a little arm waving, and it belongs to my son! The hours we spent waiting were all for this moment, when my children caught his gaze…:sigh: Are there words?

We fought the mob back to the Metro

and stepped off at Union Station to meet MeDannyP for dinner and toasted his good news from his doctors that the brain tumor is shrinking!!!



April 17, 2008 - 2:23 am

Jh - Wow what great photos and he is looking right at all!!! IT looked so exciting on TV around the Basicila. I was glued from start to finish. Everyones excitement did a good job of drowning out the few party pooper protesters that were present. I bet your kids were so exciting. I am about to post your entry up

April 17, 2008 - 7:17 am

Carlos - Wow, they look better today than they did on the camera window yesterday. A wonderful experience for our whole family.

April 17, 2008 - 2:05 pm

Elise - Thought of you all day yesterday. I knew you would be there. The pictures are fabulous! I heard the ceremony at the White House was amazing as well. Did you get to that too? You are all now a part of History! Fantastic!

April 17, 2008 - 2:06 pm

Ruth Braun - What a wonderful event to remember and be so expertly recorded-it is a wonderful gift you have given your children and you, as well, and it is very special to me that you have shared these personal photos with me-thank you and love and best wishes to all of you always-r

April 17, 2008 - 11:39 pm

Erin Ewing - Wow! What incredible photos! Such a special moment–and looks like a perfect day! I always know it will be a tired morning when I get an email note of new pics on the blog. I start with the most recent (always amazing) and then continue to scroll and browse. Hours can go by… Miss you!

April 18, 2008 - 12:07 pm

Kristin - Fantastic photos….what a memorable event for the whole family.

April 18, 2008 - 1:39 pm

Danny P - So sorry I missed meeting you at the Basilica, but who knew. Really glad to toast the good news with y’all immediately afterwards. Good day for all! Much Love, Danny

April 18, 2008 - 10:10 pm

TJ - Hey Guys – outstanding photos! I know what you mean by the excitement and “are there words.” I was at Pope John Paul’s visit out in St Louis – there are no words that can describe the atmosphere, excitement and spirit. SYL TJ

April 19, 2008 - 5:30 pm

Rachel - Incredible! You and Carlos lead a blessed life….and as always the photos are amazing too!

April 20, 2008 - 10:43 pm

christine - it is SO GREAT to hear from you all!!! :)

it was an amazing day, one that we will remember forever. much love to you all…

April 24, 2008 - 7:13 pm

Margot - What fun it is to search for you online and see your wonderful pictures! Thank you for making them available to us all.

thank you for a thank you

I photographed Dan and Sheila’s two blue-eyed beauties in October and Sheila sent me an email last week telling me she’d just received her images from Pictage and was thrilled…

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…and then today, my doorbell rang and I was handed the most beautiful bouquet of flowers as a thank-you from the family for their photographs! I dropped everything I was doing and called them to say thank you for the thank you, because it was such an unexpected surprise this week in the midst of family holiday photo rush and the chaos that brings. Their thoughtfulness and kindness is much appreciated and will be long remembered.

:grin:

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December 9, 2007 - 9:50 pm

Sheila Murray - Glad you like the flowers! Thought something seasonal would do well in your house. We just really love the pictures. My boys make my heart melt. I could spend hours just looking at them. We just had some laughs getting ready for bed…. laughing about…..well, yes, it was about passing gas. They are so funny!!!! Love you guys. Sheila

Congratulations, Lt Col Ward!

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November 30, 2007 - 6:23 pm

Gooch - Wow. What a great ceremony. I officially have to call him Lieutenant Colonel Ward for the next 30 days.

Any bets on if I slip up?

Congratulations Boy.

November 30, 2007 - 7:16 pm

Sheila Murray - Way to go, Scott!!! Got to say, from what I’ve heard, you have surely earned your rank. Rock on, Lt. Col. Ward. And, your beautiful and talented wife should take some credit, too. You both are quite an inspiration. Congratulations to the Wards!!!

Love, Sheila Murray

December 1, 2007 - 3:11 pm

Jennet Ward - Thanks Sheila! Wish we could’ve all pinned on at the same time. I guess Gooch and Dan are next! And you know our promotion is all do to our wonderful spouses!!

Love you all
Scott

December 5, 2007 - 11:20 pm

Danny P - Congrats Boy!! I wish I coulda seen you get that silver on you…who’d a thunk it was possible back in ’90?

What a great collage of pics…Lt Col Wardo, you are truly blessed.

All kinds of love to all 5 of you,
Danny

Duck meets Quack

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Duck, North Carolina beach house, seven families; very early mornings filled with sounds of air hockey, PacMan, Galaga and pool bouncing off tile floors; afternoons of kids like sugar cookies, covered in sand; evenings of fun and friendship and movies on the big screen. Picture perfect vacation.

Aidan

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August 14, 2007 - 2:22 pm

Gooch - Too funny. :mrgreen:

We need more Stud Groover beach photos up. Where’s Malita, Cocky, Ezy and Weeble?

August 14, 2007 - 2:55 pm

christine - ah, I’m so glad you asked! there’s more — so much more. in fact, I feel guilty it’s so good; I’m considering a requirement that the Grooverettes submit at least one photo of herself with 80s hair. just to be fair. it’s that good.

August 14, 2007 - 4:18 pm

Jennet Ward - It’s pretty unfair that I keep looking older , but Scott , and Gooch for that matter, still look like they are 21…. : :smile:

August 16, 2007 - 10:01 am

Wardo - Here are my choices for dinner, but I’ll eat anything on this menu.

Salad of Red and Yellow Tomatoes, Shaved Fennel, Parmesan

Corn and Lump Crab Chowder

Fillet of Beef with Shallot Risotto, Wild Mushrooms and Baby Spinach

Lobster Tournedos over Curried Lentils with Puree of Mango and Vanilla Bean

Chocolate Brownies with Coconut Ice Cream

August 16, 2007 - 10:07 am

Wardo - Christine, I will kill you next time I see you for putting that picture on the webpage! :smile:

August 16, 2007 - 10:12 am

Jennet Ward - Hi guys, I have all the condiments, cooking oil, salt and pepper, etc that we never opened from our trip there in June. So I’ll send along a list to you of what you don’t need to get at the store. The things we used a lot were toilet paper, paper towels, garbage bags, laundry and dish detergent. We were running the dishwasher at least two times a day, and the beach got our clothes pretty dirty. As far as the dinners, Scott and I don’t mind at all cooking one night. Just let us know. Since they make you empty the fridge, etc. Sunday morning, we usually eat all the leftover food on Saturday night. It’s amazing how much food is left in the fridge the day you leave that doesn’t get eaten and gets trashed. Also, since the check in isn’t until 4PM on Sunday, we usually don’t cook that night because we are too busy unpacking groceries and clothes. But maybe that’s because we have 3 little ones. Gooch and Mrs Gooch, million thanks for doing Christmas photos. Great idea!

August 16, 2007 - 11:31 am

Teressa - Jennet – I know we haven’t met yet, but you have a hottie for a husband. lol. Great posted pics Christine!

My adult dinner votes (thank you Wards for coordinating):

Tuna Tartare
Cesar Salad w/Jerk spiced shrimp

Filet of beef
Lobster Tournedos

Pineapple filled crepes
Warm Banana splits

August 16, 2007 - 10:36 am

christine - dead won’t be sounding too bad to a Groover on slide show night! :cool:

August 16, 2007 - 11:45 am

Teressa - Regarding the fancy dinner – I too will eat anything on the menu so whatever! Looks awesome.

I like the idea of adding wine to the staple list. Seems easier if everybody does think they’ll have some. But whatever works for the group is fine with me. Ian and I both prefer red….. french of any kinds, italian chianti’s, or pinot noirs. But again, whatever. If that’s too tough to get a concensus then maybe those that do want to drink wine can bring maybe 2-3 bottles of whatever they like to share?

I too like the idea of getting out of the house one night for dinner. Perhaps those two remaining dinner evenings the guys can cook one night, and the women the other.

August 19, 2007 - 10:31 pm

Sheila Murray - Groovers and Groovettes,
With regard to the dinner, check Christine’s choices…we second that emotion. Dan has violent illness with Lamb/Mutton of any kind, so please no sheep. Also, no scallops please.

We’ll bring whatever products you think we need from Sam’s club (is anyone making a list?) and probably a case of wine…we’ll bring a variety of reds.

We can’t wait!!

August 19, 2007 - 11:16 pm

Alison - Scott, Mark said he talked to you about this, but I’m sending it anyway. If it’s too late, go with his order. I am sure it will be fantastic whatever it ends up being!

Here are our votes for food:
Salad: Boston Bibb Lettuce, Roquefort and Toasted Walnuts, Fresh Mozzarella, Tomato and Basil Salad
Entree: Pommery Mustard Marinated and Grilled Chicken with Herbed Currituck New Potatoes and Spicy Sugar Snap Peas, Blackened Mahi Mahi with Mango Salsa and Coconut Jasmine Rice
Dessert: Strawberry Shortcake with Sweet Balsamic Drizzle

Mark and I may be the only ones that don’t drink wine so we have no preference there!

Great job with all the planning!!

August 26, 2007 - 1:44 pm

Teressa - Great job Christine! Thanks for keeping us all organized and updated. Thank you.
- Teressa

September 10, 2007 - 12:22 am

Ian - Who’s in for golf? I’m bringing my clubs.
We might want to think about setting up tee times.
Anyone else bringing a tennis racket?

September 10, 2007 - 4:05 pm

Gooch - Ezy,

Danny Boy, Wardo and Ely know about the golf and were told to bring clubs (and tennis rackets if they so choose). I haven’t googled courses around the outer banks but we probably have a few to choose from. 3 vs 3 scramble recommended with losers being humiliated by the winners in some juvenile way.

September 11, 2007 - 9:06 am

Sheila Murray - Hi guys! Thank you ladies for putting so much of your time into the planning of this vacation.
Sheila

September 11, 2007 - 9:43 am

Alison - Hey guys! Hopefully somebody else likes Star Wars and Captain Underpants. We will have our gameboys from the plane ride and bring some favorite movies. Will somebody be able to bring sand toys and outdoor stuff like frisbees, footballs etc.? I really hope to be outside with them most of the time which will be good for any nappers!! We’re getting excited!!

September 11, 2007 - 10:09 am

Sheila Murray - Alison, I hear you. My boys love to play in the pool and ocean. So, I know that I will be spending a lot of time outdoors with them. We will pack up some beach toys. (shovels, balls, frisbees)
Sheila

September 25, 2007 - 10:25 pm

Meg heithcock - hi.. okay, we are just now checking this website less than a week from when we all are to meet, we just learned where we are going and how long the drive is, 13 hours… shew! Checking into flights months ago would have been the better way to go. We’ll be sick of singing “99 bottles of beer on the wall” :-)

Alas, we look forward to seeing everyone.
-meg

September 25, 2007 - 10:48 pm

Sheila Murray - Well Meg, it took me a while to figure out that we have over 1000 miles to drive. For some reason I thought it was a short trip. Darn, I feel like a fool. Funny thing is, Dan knew all along. We are on vacation right now in Sacramento. We depart tomorrow for Florida. See everyone very soon.
Sheila

September 27, 2007 - 10:57 pm

Alison - I am bringing flashlights for my kids – thought others may want to bring some along too! Leah is also big into making beaded necklaces so we will bring some stuff along for all the girls to make some if they want. We are all excited – kids especially because they get to miss school!: grin:

October 7, 2007 - 10:22 pm

Christine - wow, what a week! such a great time. there was a LOT of stuff that wasn’t necessarily noticed or publicly recognized that made such a venture possible. thank you so much to those who saw a need and just did. and a special thanks to the families who finished cleaning up and checking out this morning.

Godspeed, my friends…

October 8, 2007 - 7:45 pm

Gooch - I’m TDY to Knoxville, TN and it’s Monday night. I just logged on to see the newly posted photos – wow! Christine, I think that you outdid yourself this time. I know you probably think that you could have done better (only b/c you are your biggest critic), but I am impressed with the variety, clarity and professional look to all of the photos. Very nice. Love you. Carlos

October 8, 2007 - 8:54 pm

Sheila Murray - Wow!!! Christine, I’m so impressed with the pictures. I’d seen some, but not all, and you did a fantastic job! It is obvious that you have been doing this for awhile. Very, very nice. Thank you for taking time out of your vacation to take pictures of my boys and our family. We are extremely happy with the outcome.
Love always, Sheila

Ezy

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Ian is a Fed-Ex pilot who takes full advantage of jump-seating around the country on his days off. he’s also a Groover, and we talked him into spending an extra night in D.C. for a get-together at Quack’s.

when we got home, Ian was kind enough to sit for me so I could test my equipment for an early morning shoot — a trick nobody in my family falls for anymore. this one is my favorite:

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April 30, 2007 - 6:40 pm

Quack - Heck, that man is sexy

May 1, 2007 - 9:38 pm

Myra Sparrow - His eyes are filled with intensity, yet his mouth has an almost playful quality like, “I know something that you don’t know”……..
Great photograph.

May 2, 2007 - 8:37 am

His Wife - I looooovvvveee the photos. Yes, sexy indeed. You really captured his spirit in these photos.

Me Danny P

Dan is a Groover, a member of a group of my husband’s best friends from The Zoo (they call it); he’s a happily married father of two; he’s a pilot; he’s the son of a cancer survivor; and he has a brain tumor. I wanted to photograph him, and he indulged me by showing up with a shaved head in a cold, winter week that he was in D.C. for treatment. My impression was that he was looking forward to some benign images of himself and maybe one of the scar to document it and that’s probably all I would have given him if I hadn’t been pushed by a certain photographer-duo to take my images further. Paul Elledge and Leasha Overturf taught me not only to photograph, but to create. They gave me the gift of permission; they pushed me out of my comfort zone and forced me take the pictures I want to take, not the pictures my model wants to have. I used this trick innately for the first time on Dan. I wanted an image of the horror I felt when Dan told us over the phone just after surgery that some doctors sliced his head from ear to ear, cracked his skull in half and cut just close enough to his brain to leave him function [yikes!] but also the bright optimism I see in his eyes during recovery that he’s going to beat this monster. the second I saw this one through my lens I knew that I had what I wanted.

Dan does not have a blog (and not from my lack of nagging), so I’ve pirated from an email one of his thousands of worthy comments on his battle with cancer that truly puts life into perspective. just as I can only photograph what I see, only Dan can put words to this experience of his.

The fact that I am getting a chance to get treatment is amazing and wonderful in and of itself, when it could have gone so far before diagnosis that I was past the point of treatment. I met a gentlemen in the elevator two days ago, and he had the same scar as I have; I jokingly said, “Looks like Neurosurgery got their hands on you, too.” He said, “Yeah, twice.” I asked him what he had. He replied “Glioblastoma Multifome” (known as GBM) and asked about mine, to which I meekishly replied “Inflitrative Astrocytoma,” and felt like I’d put both of my size 11s in my cakehole. See, my tumor is the “Scream” of horror movies; there are some scary parts, but there is still some fun and laughs in there. A GBM is “The Exorcist.”

After the Real Camera equipment was put away, I took this with my RAZR and it’s one of my favorites because it justifies “first learn the rules, then learn to break them,” lens flare from the sun adding brightness to a cold winter day of cancer treatment, and a visit from an old and dear friend a highlight in the story of our new home.